What indicators or signs should I look for in my child that he/she is involved with gangs?

As stated in question 2, you cannot make determinations to support your suspicions based solely upon one factor. Some of the indicators/signs that you can look for to see if your child is involved with a gang are:

  • Bragging about the “crew” or the “homies,” and not being afraid to die
  • The child is very secretive about his/her activities and their friends
  • The consistent wearing of certain colors which their friends appear to wear as well
  • Discipline or grade problems at school
  • Gang-related graffiti in their rooms, on your home, on their school papers/books, or on their persons
  • Loss of interest in sports or family activities
  • New friends with whom you are unfamiliar and who display some of the gang indicators/signs. Pulling away from or alienating themselves from long time old friends
  • A new style of dress which is uncharacteristic of the child
  • New tattoos
  • Possession of weapons (Firearms, altered clubs, knives)
  • Possession or use of drugs and/or alcohol
  • Staying out late or “hanging out” in new areas
  • Talks about his/her “crew” when referring to friends
  • Threats from other gangs/gang members against your child made by phone, in person, or in writing
  • Unexplainable injuries which may be caused by gang fights or being “jumped in” to a gang
  • Unexplainable possession of spray paint cans or permanent markers
  • Unusual and irrational fear of the Police
  • Watching films/videos or listening to music that obviously glorifies the gangster lifestyle

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1. What is a gang?
2. Can a gang or gang member be identified from clothing alone?
3. What indicators or signs should I look for in my child that he/she is involved with gangs?
4. How can I discourage my child from joining a gang?